Thursday, December 18, 2008

----*----Clogs---->

Okay so i've been meaning to speak on this subject for a while now and it's about time i do just that. Speak on it. Im sure we all (men and women) have come in contact with a "clog" at least once in our lives. What is a "clog" you ask? Well a "clog" ladies and gents is a simply put this way
Clog: (N) pronounced Klawg. A person who attempts to get in between a relationship between two who love and or like one another. One who is stoping or preventing movement. Now let me continue to explain. See recently a few of my homegirls have mentioned some occurences with a few "clogs". This is very very disturbing to me, also I myself have dealt with a "clog" for about 2 years now, yea 2 YEARS. A good example is this, see a few years ago i was completely in LOVE i mean i still love him to this day, and it just so happend that for military reasons he left the country, we were still together until a certain "clog" decided to weasle her way in while the relationship was on rocks. (Note: "Clogs" love rocky relationships, they can sniff them out)Now i know you are probably saying "it's not all the clog" or "it takes two to tango" but please let me inform you that no matter what "Clogs" are very persistant, "Clogs" could give a damn about your feelings, the only thing a "Clog" cares about is their own feelings and what they want. But, i digress on this one particular "Clog". So yes my boo was over there and during our rocky period "Clog" tries to "comfort" my boo. (Note: "Clogs" love to comfort, it makes them feel like there getting closer.) So me and my boo decided the distance and the fact that i miscarried his child were to much to handle at once so we broke up. Do yall know less than a month later he was dating this F-in "Clog"? Also i want to inform you that the "Clog" went as far as to call me and inform me that my boo would be "well taken care of, no need to cry, i know what your going through". That was 2 years ago, i wish i could tell yall the rest of the story but i really cant, but i really love my boo, he was and still is my heart, but everything happens for a reason, all part of TLW. As for my homegirl She met her boo around the same time i met mine and they have been on a off but trust they both know whats up, regardless of anyone else they know who comes first, well My homegirl is getting ready to go to NY to see her boo, but of course you know shit aint that easy, it's gotta be a "clog" tryna get in the way. This "clog" is being childish making myspace post and shit about how "she dont chase"...."she's a real female, she dont settle, happy birthday to her boo" who is really my homegirls boo. Typical "clog" material. See "clogs" love to advertise that their taking someone elses. My advice is this do not, i repeat do NOT allow a "clog" to take away your happiness! Follow your mutha fuckin heart and if your heart tells you who you need to be with to be happy then do what it takes to be with that person, especially if you were there first and you already know the "clog" has no comparrison! My words to those who are proclaimed "clogs" are, you know who was their before you and who will be their after you, you can be temporary but bitch i'm permanent..........TLW

2 comments:

  1. I love the definition of clog and how you used it. Sure there are those that will cockblock you and try to sabatage a relationship, true, but this is a competition. It can be dirty! If you trying to bust someone up you go for the weakest point in the relationship.

    That person only belongs to you as long as they want to. That's why you need a ring and a real marriage. Until then all's fair! Nasty but true.

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    Jaycee

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  2. good post. seems like women tend to be more of a clog. I wrote about men who do this on our blog. But I referred to them as scavengers.

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