Living In The Past?

Do you reminisce about your past often? Whether it's about love or a job or just your life in general. How often do you recall your past? I have been told recently that i "live in the past". And though I don't agree, I will say this, If I do tend to linger in my past a little, Can you honestly blame me??? I went through a really serious heartbreak, I can't put into words how much pain i was in after me and Jarvis' break up. So if I tend to so called "live in the past" can you honestly blame me? If you spend all your time with someone and you get use to being around them you of course will gain strong feelings for them. Now imagine if that person all of a sudden just leaves you, then about 2 years later somehow you meet back up. Trust me it hurts, so if i tend to "live in the past" don't put me at fault instead try to understand. Sometimes i can't help but to think, "Honestly what's so diffrent?? How am i living in the past exactly"? Something else I have had to learn the hard way is that time changes people. The person that you meet, years from now they may not be the same person. Accepting this change is hard, because you expect for this person to do and say the

same things that they would when you first met them, but what you fail to realize is that, who they were is now gone. That's something i think will

take a while for me to understand that he's not the same person anymore, I'm not the same person anymore either. I think really i changed for the better. I've been through other heart breaks and had my fun but I've learned from it, i wo

n't let it hold me back. It's okay to change, but don't be afraid to try again at something that failed once. It's never to late to become what you might have been.