Missing Puzzle Piece

Okay so every one knows distance puts a STRONG damper on a relationship no matter the situation.....It's just human nature we need some sort of affection and attention when in a relationship or something like it. Too me long distance is if a person is more than 2 states away. I can deal with you being out of state cuz it's called "traveling" but if you are 2 states away or out of the country, Plus if you REALLY TRUELY LOVE someone you should deal with things in order to be with them, to me that's long distance. Distance also puts alot of unecessary problems and drama between two people. I've been dealing with a distance issue with Jarvis every since i met him so i'm pretty much use to it. It sucks f*ckin ass but i can deal with it. Him......not so much. But, I really understand why he feels the way he does. I think maybe i'm more comfortable with it because i have all my family here in VA and all of my friends except one (Kida!!!!) in VA too. Jarvis has friends and family here in VA too but he feels there is more for him in Texas. I really don't have a problem packing up and going to Texas, really I don't, it's just that before i leave i have things to handle in VA just to make sure there's no issue when I get to Texas. I know it's kinda irritating to him. It's irritating to me too, I miss him just as much as he misses me, if not more. But i know one thing Patience is something I have all day, he is very impatient. But arn't somethings REALLY worth waiting for?.....HELL YEA!!!!

***Love+Distance=Stress***

We all know what day is coming up soon, Yes in case you forgot Saturday is Valentines Day, My second favorite holiday, the first being christmas. Valentines day is either really exciting! or really depressing. Especially if your far from your siggie (significant other). Long distant relationships can be excruciatingly hard, trust me i know. When you want to hold them, you cant, when you want to just lay together and enjoy one another's company you cant, or even just talk together face to face because you've had a hard day you cant. I know for a fact, and from expirence just how hard it is, but there are ways to get around it, and get your concentration off of how much you miss each other. Talking daily on the phone is the most obvious thing to do when you miss your siggie, but if you talk to much you'll run out of things to say, your conversation will get foggy, and you will just be listning to each other breathe. Now unless your weird like me and you will stay on the phone even if no words are being said, u need to do something more. Think about sending your siggie a special gift from the heart, one to let them know there memory is still just as strong as if they were right next to you. Also, sometimes a good letter means alot, even if you speak on the phone there is nothing like a thoughtful letter from the heart. Now Valentines day for me, as much as i love it will be a sad one, the core of my heart is in Texas, so it's another lonely one for me, My plans are to sit at home, watch a charlie brown valentine, drink, and cry. I know it's depressing but i just dont want to go out with any one but my siggie. So for all of those lucky ones with your siggies enjoy your time and cherish every moment. Happy Valentines Day yall!